Girl meets boy…
Girl likes boy…
Girl goes out with boy…
Girl Spends night with boy…
Girl winds up with an unplanned pregnancy.
Sounds familiar? Sadly, this scenario has been played out one too many times. Studies have shown that the number of unplanned pregnancies has steadily risen in recent years. Women accidentally conceiving, caught in a difficult situation, faced with tough decisions. It may be that she isn’t ready nor prepared to be a mom yet, whether mentally, financially, or emotionally. Or she might be ready, but her partner isn’t. It may also be that it was a casual one-night-stand and a baby would not fit anywhere in the grand scheme of things. Truth is, it may be a lot of things.
The end game, however, is one and the same. She winds up with a lot of incredibly hard, life-altering decision to make. The biggest of which is, should she keep the baby? Go through with the pregnancy? A life is at stake, so many futures on the line.
And as she struggles with these choices, she can’t help but think. How the heck did I end up in this mess? Why is this happening?
The answer, more than not, is simple. The woman and her partner failed to practice safe sex. No form of contraceptive was used. No condom, pill, or any kind of protection. And unprotected sex increases the chances of contraception to staggering heights.
Yes, contraceptives are not 100% effective. But if used correctly, and consistently, the effectively rate still comes pretty close. And it’s a million times safer than not using any protection at all.
And sure, using condom may take a little more effort from both you and your partner. But a little effort goes a long way. Take the initiative and buy condoms on your own. Forget the unreliable practice of letting your partner supply his own stash of protection. Take the matter into your own hands – when you’re in the mood, you better be good. If you’re not prepared, then delay sex. Because the reality is, all it takes is one careless counter, and everything will change. Is that really a risk worth taking?
Embrace your sexuality. Enjoy life, experience life and everything it has to offer. Just remember to be safe. Live life to the fullest. And with utmost care. Never get into a situation unprepared and unprotected. That little sensibility will go a long way into ensuring you have a good future ahead. And a baby, a family of your own, at the right time in your life. Not a single second earlier.